When you love


Love makes us do things that we normally don’t do. Unconsciously it changes u. One day you’ll realize that you are not totally the same person that you were before you met the person that you love.Now, you are more forgiving and patient. You have to be, for your relationship to last. You learn to understand and accept her flaws.All of these are okay because you love her.

You don’t like waiting, but you still wait anyway. You wait for her to go home. You wait for the message that never came.They always say that if you love someone you must be willing to wait.It could be months,days, years or even eternity.And everyday you tell yourself not to lose hope. All you do is wait. Wait for her to love you.

Loving someone means forgiving almost everything. Forgiving her for hurting you, for letting you feel so much pain that you don;t know what to do anymore.You know that if you don’t forgive her you will lose her.And that is when you try to love her unconditionally. No matter what she does, in the end you’ll still love her.

When you love someone, you do your best to make her happy. Seeing her happy makes you more happy. It’s like your main purpose in life is to make her happy.Sometimes her happiness is the one thing that is causing you pain. Her happiness is your sadness.But since you love her, you’ll give her the happiness that she wants..and that is her Freedom.

So be ready to get hurt, to forgive, to wait and let go..when you love someone.


Our distance


What happened to us? I thought we were different from all out failed relationships? I thought we were wiser and stronger than our past. We were happy and contented in our own world. Life did not seem to bother us because we knew during that time, that we were there for each other.That  our love was the only thing that mattered.

You knew almost everything about me. What makes me smile or sad… What fires my emotion.You knew what i needed and tried to give me what i wanted.You were there for me and i was there for you. You were all that i could think about. I was so happy just being with you;by your side.I felt safe and secured in your arms. There is nothing in this world that i want. I loved where i was.

We never needed a lot of things. Seeing you everyday before i sleep, and waking up the next day with you by my side made my life simple and so easy. I could not ask for more. But as time passes by, i did ask for more. I asked for more time to be with you. I prayed for more days,weeks and hours I wanted more of you. I did not want to go.I wanted to stay there with you.Time is my enemy when we are together.It reminds me that you are not really mine.That nothing lasts forever.

I needed to go. I had a choice; to stay with you or do what i originally planned before i met you. I chose to continue my plan. It’s not because i did not love you that much. I loved you more than i loved myself. I knew you felt that. I made sure you felt it. I left because i thought that no matter how far we are from each other, distance would not change the way we felt about us.I was convinced that  we were stronger than  distance and time.

We tried to make it work,with my timezone and yours. Those late night calls with you. I was so eager to go home so i could talk to you. I would constantly watch what time it was and wished that  it would go just a little faster so that our time would meet.The in between day chats that we tried to do just so we won’t don’t miss what is happening with each others lives. At the start it was so easy. Not having enough sleep was never a problem. i would delay things that i needed to do just so i can talk to you.Tell you that i miss you and i love you.We thought nothing would change.

Little by little we drifted apart. We argued a lot.We gave less and less time to each other.It was not the same as before.The excitement to talk and see each other is gone.The only time that we were not fighting was the time that we did not talk to each other. We used to be each others happiness, now we have become enemies that could not find a reason to reconcile.I can feel the anger, sadness, and disappointment.But love was suddenly impossible to feel.I can remember our memories but the feeling is lost.

I can’t find you nor feel you.

But i hope that someday,somehow..

I would feel you again.

I want to feel you again.

To say i miss you is an understatement

Missing you

Every inch of me misses everything about you.

Your eyes, your smile. Your voice.

It has a special effect on me that no else have ever done to me.

The mere thought of you makes my eyes and heart smile unconsciously.

I have these sudden palpitations that make me fear that I might not calm myself down.

Relax dear heart….relax.

Staring at your beautiful face makes me forget reality.

You hypnotize me with that look.

Taking me to a place that I never want to leave.

My time does not stop when I talk to you; rather it is as if time moves so fast;

That I can’t believe it’s already time to say goodnight to you.

My mind can’t stop thinking about you.

I tried to, but I could not.

I can only imagine you here with me.

Fate has once again played a trick on me.

Letting me know and feel you even though you are so far away from me.

What does it want me to learn from this?

Now you have become my happiness.

My everything.

If only I was given a chance to go back in time,

I would look for you.

I would show you how I feel.

Words are not enough.

In my heart and in my mind I know you are the only one that I desire.

My wish.

My dream come true.

My love.


The problem with Love.


 I am happy every time i fall in-love.Who doesn’t? That feeling where i am are so inspired and excited that i feel like i can do anything in this world. My everyday routine which bored me to death is now something that does not seem to bother me at all. I am now focused on something else..Love. or shall we say Falling in love.The mystery and excitement keeps me up all night.My priority has once again changed.Love is what matters now and i can’t wait as to what tomorrow might bring. And for  awhile i thought that this would last forever..although i believe that forever does not exist…or maybe i have just not experienced it yet.

The problem with love is..it makes you feel good and so happy at the beginning. But just when you have already gotten used to that feeling;life happens. It smacks you in the face with reality. wake up! You naive little girl.It’s not all rainbows and butterflies. There you are so in love and full of hope.Proud that you are one of the lucky ones to have experienced this common yet unique feeling.Then one day you realize that love was just passing by.And now you have to say goodbye.

Love is not enough to make someone love you back also. It is not enough to make someone stay. It will not even guarantee to make the other person happy.But why do we still take risks just to feel this feeling?Is it really worth the pain?Will it even make you a better person after being hurt?Personally, i don’t know what to do.They say that people eventually learn from their mistakes. I guess i am not learning, i do the same stupid thing again and again when it comes to love. It’s like  taking an exam which you thought you are already prepared for; but ending up with a mental block out.What the hell happened?

Isn’t love supposed to be simple and easy? Why can’t it just be a fairy tale where everyone gets a happy ending.Why does life have to wake you up from a very good dream..?So that’s the problem with love..it is just a temporary bliss..after that is a never-ending war which will only end if you stop loving.