The way we love depends on how we understand love itself. It depends on what we see around us,on how love was shown to us by the people around us.
We all love differently.For if we all loved thesame then there would be no break ups.There is no perfect formula on how to love.What works for me might not work for you right?
You have your own understanding of what love should be,and i have my own experiences and past that made me realize the beauty of love.
The way i see it,
People will always make mistakes.No matter how hard they try not to,people can still hurt you even if you give them your best.They may still hurt you even when they do not mean to hurt you.
And they may still hurt you even when you beg them not to.
That is where love comes in.If there is love,there is forgiveness.You should be ready to forgive when you love.
That is the beauty of love.
But one should always remember that we are only human beings..that because of too much pain and suffering we choose to end that love,not because we are not strong enough or that we are choosing the easy way out,but because love, is not just about being hurt it is also about happiness and having peace in your mind and heart.So we forgive but sometimes we cannot love that same person again or maybe we can but not now.Not until the pain is gone.
We should not only learn to love others but also to love ourselves.We deserve to be loved most importantly by ourselves.When we love ourselves we learn to value our worth.When we learn to love our imperfect self and our flaws,then can we love others without expecting them to be perfect.We can then love what is true.
Love hurts like hell,but it is beautiful more than anything else.